The autumn winds have been a welcomed event and I’m going to bring you up to speed. I’ve adjusted, recognized and featured on The Edge. When I’m away from you there’s traditionally a great deal going on. It’s only been a little over a month yet I don’t know where to start. Bare with me if I start rambling but something tells me you won’t leave until I get to the end of the story. Let’s get right into this leg of the journey.
At the end of September, I got a call on my desk phone. It was the recruiter about the job I interviewed for a few weeks prior. While holding back my excitement and a few gratuitous tears, I was offered the position and I accepted. It seemed like things were starting to look a lot better in this very moment. I couldn’t tell anyone because the process wasn’t complete. It was hard trying to hold it in but I had to tell my day 1 friends that started at this company with me. On October 5th, I was transferred to my new workstation and gained a new perspective of the company I was hired into. Over the pass few weeks, I’ve been trying to get my area in order and adjust to my new responsibilities. The 1st week was the hardest because I kinda missed tweeting at customers but as time went on I recognized it was time for me to do something different.
Meanwhile, during this time the Mista requested some time alone and I really didn’t know how to process this. Why would he need time away from me? What could I have done wrong? So many questions were running through my head but I had to remember something that I determined earlier this year. As long as we follow our own rules, who can can judge us if we fail. The questions ceased and I went on enjoying this time in my life and getting reacquainted with my “me time.” I like the time I have with myself. Some time ago, I resolved I would probably never get married and started becoming comfortable with that. Of course I’ve considered it since being with him but I can’t let go of the idea that it may not happen. After a solid month, we reconnected on our own terms.
I haven’t mentioned the FOOTBALL! That’s right if you follow me on Instagram (@bmisunderstood) you already know the kid plays for the Martin Luther King Jr. Senior High School varsity team. We’re still enjoying an #undefeated season after the controversy. Some of you got the story from my Periscope and the news. Check it out.
The decision was overturned with suspensions of players involved and we went on to get the W against Cass Tech at Ford Field. Last week we defeated U of D Jesuit and are scheduled to play Wyandotte this weekend. This has been an exciting season and I’d like to think it’s destiny. If you all remember, the kid use to wear the number 19 when he played for the West Side Steelers in PAL. He holds number 80. We both observed the relation on the day he got his number. 19 – 80, the year I was born. I’ve been to every game and with this photo in my back pocket.
I’ll keep you posted on our results. LET’S GO CRUSADERS!!!
In the background, the kid went to the homecoming in a throwback look from the 90s. This picture does him no justice. He wore a Coogi sweater, Levi’s and Clark’s wallabees. I didn’t even have to argue with him about it this year. However, I did call my friend, Marv Neal, to give light on the significance of the Clark’s (thanks 😉 for the assist). So, I think he’s growing up a bit. True to my thrifty heart, I purchased the sweater on eBay. Let’s give acknowledgement to the high top fade or Bart Simpson as the NEW kids call it. I think he looked rather nice.
A doctor’s visit for my annual exam deemed unnecessary until they told me I have a Vitamin D deficiency. How the hell do you get that? Here’s what I found may have been my cause:
Researchers have also noted that vitamin D deficiency is prevalent in adults of all ages who always wear sun protection (which blocks vitamin D production) or limit their outdoor activities.1 People with increased skin pigmentation (such as those whose ancestors are from Africa, the Middle East, or India) are also at risk, as are the elderly.
Let me also include that my normal dairy intake is not what it use to be considering I’m not as local to the products I trust from Meijer. So they gave me a prescription and I’ve started to make that journey to purchase the groceries I love which can assist me in turning this thing around. Don’t worry about me, I’ll be just fine. Other than that, I’m healthy as can be and headed back to the gym. Yes, we’ve been through this gym break-ation (Comes from my new addiction to Wendy Williams, lol) before. However, I never internalized the importance of the gym in my life. Working out helps my attitude about myself and it’s helps me release tension. My body feels like I was in one helluva fight after the first couple days but I’m determined to stick with it.
This will require a whole post of its own but I wanted to be let you all know. This natural thing is almost at the end of my rope. My mindset – I’m fidgeting with this hair everyday, back and forth with the idea of a sew-in and do not want to damage it. It’s getting very exhausting and I need a change. Yes, I’m coming up to year 3 of the 4 year promise. At this time though, I’m over it. I’ve made an appointment for next Friday with Maya Mitchell and will follow-up on what happened.
I believe those are all the highlights. If I think of anything else you should know, I’ll be sure to inform you. At any rate, I hope you all are well and smiling! 🙂