I’m no fashionista. Just a regular degular shemegula girl that likes to look great no matter what the occasion. As I become more responsible with my finances, the Internet has become the best place for me to treat my retail addiction. Here I can fill shopping carts, stalk sales, and shutdown without feeling the impulses the stores create. Then there are times when I have cash and this form of therapy isn’t an option. Step in Polyvore app. Here I can become inspired by all things fashion including home. Let me show how this has become my favorite app for my closet and living quarters.
(Just a little background – Tamika and I love fashion but these Midwest professional streets – wanna hold us back. Cue the Rick Ross tune. After a few short hours of intense research on her part we had both developed a new hobby.)
I was in complete awe when I saw all the options and items. We had always wondered where those pictures came from and now we knew. However, we didn’t know it was going to be like this. Here are a few sets I created in my inaugural weeks.
There’s no denying fashionable side. My true love is home fashion and interior design. I often think about how great my place would look if I had an endless amount of cash – OMG! Moreover, I have made a point to create a less than common approach in my own home. Polyvore allows me to daydream in color and change my mind millions of times without spending a penny or having to return something because I found something better. This was my 1st home fashion set on the app and it took me almost 2 days to create it.
The very unexpected component of this app is the functionality to purchase what you like. I’ll keep my retail-addicted heart calm until I get a few more things in order before I start going crazy. In the meantime, Polyvore is keeping my mind off of things I tend to think about more often than needed.
WiFi is essential wherever we go. I mean EVERYWHERE! If there is no connection, it must be important or I’ve decided to be off the grid for a little while. Then I was watching one of my favorite YouTubers Alejandra when I noticed this little handy project. As soon as I saw it, I wanted to share it with you and all the guest of my home.
This simple diy only requires 3 supplies and a large amount of trust. You’ll need a picture frame, printed/collaged password information and scissors.
Cut the information to the designated size of the frame.
Place in frame.
Display appropriately in your home.
In the event you’re feeling petty or not so friendly, fold the frame down and carry on. 🙂
This is a very quick considerate project for your family and friends. Let me know if you decide to post your passcode in your home. If you’re not, meet me at the Starbucks nearest you.
As a child, I watched my mother become overwhelmed with the things the “reader” told her once a month or every other month. I remember the notes she would write down and sitting in this woman’s home for what seemed like hours. There was a specific time in my childhood when my mother kept a bowl of water underneath our beds to keep the bad spirits away from us. I vowed to never get caught up in this type of thing in my adult life. However, while enjoying some quality time with a friend I was personally introduced to something that I know will become a staple in my life.
Disclaimer: The way in which you practice your beliefs is not up for debate and neither are mine.
I was feeling a little down and per normal my friends don’t allow me to feel that way for too long. On this day it was Eva’s turn to get my mind off of things. On a gloomy Saturday afternoon, she came and picked me up and we adventured into the new shops littering the interior of Detroit. She even got me to eat at Detroit Vegan Soul! I had the smothered tempeh. Don’t ask me what it is exactly because I kept calling it meatloaf and if I ever go back which I will because I like it – I’ll be having the same thing. While we were talking and the rain began to come down, she told me about the Tarot & Tea place next door. All I could think about was the way my mother would hang on the words of the “reader” and I said I would not be doing that. This is what I love most about Eva – she understands when you say no and that’s pretty much it. Done deal! As we were leaving the restaurant she says, “let me go in here and get you some white sage!” Okay! I’m thinking I just hang it up on the door or something. We go inside the shop and it’s very pretty. Not like the “reader’s” home. It was calming in there. Crystals, books and herbs aligned the shelves and I was caught up in a quartz that was so beautiful. This was a distraction to keep me from making any real eye contact with the “readers.” Eva made her purchase and we walked out to the car.
She explained that I was suppose to use this to clear out the negative energy in my home. All I needed to do was burn/smoke the herb and walk through my clean house with a few windows open. (It’s so warm in my place there’s always a window or two open.) While I was doing this, I am required to pray for God to remove the negativity. I’ll be honest it sounded like a little voodoo until she said I could say a prayer.
A couple weeks went by and I hadn’t performed the cleanse. Then one Sunday I couldn’t stand it. I needed to get this negative energy out of my life. I woke up, cleaned up thoroughly and started the process. The details of the prayer focused on bringing peace and removing the negativity from our home. I felt a certain positive energy soon after. I began feeling a great pull of bad over the pass few weeks and decided to do it again. What do you know, I felt lighter again. Itsasifasthough (that’s an inside joke between Shawn and I but I’ll share it with you- just read it like you see it) I’ve laid my burdens down by the river side. I really can’t explain it but that’s how I feel. Here’s a little video to explain it a little bit better than I did if you’re more interested:
After the follow up, I’ve offered this treatment to my people because of the way it makes me feel. It may be the white sage or it could be the intense prayer I offer up for peace. Either way – I’m a newbie to the white sage ritual and I’m positive this will be in my life forever.
Have you ever tried this or something of the sorts?
It’s an almost never ending saga with me and furnishing my home. You could blame those endless hours of HGTV, DIY channel watching, Pinterest scrolling, my upbringing or my need for perfection.
As I was walking in one day, I noticed a semi-empty space in need of attention. I like to have areas of interest. This one was lacking. On the top of my mini office resides my blinged out collection of picture frames. So whatever was going to live in this shared space had to sparkle. Then I found a quick fix to my compulsion. My love for Detroit would he highlighted here, again. (But that ain’t none of y’all business, lol). Off to the craft store we go!
I already had black poster board. The required supplies called for glitter, picture frame (any size), scissors, copy of the image and craft glue. While at my weekend home, JoAnn’s fabric and craft store, I discovered an ingenious product in glitter paper. A full sheet of paper with an adhesive backing covered in glitter. Well, slap me silly this project just became more cost efficient!!! I picked up some metallic pens to write a little message but that didn’t happen.
Follow these simple instructions:
~ Print off a picture or template of the item you want to see in glitter. Trace it out on the back of the glitter paper.
~ Cut out the poster board to fit the frame.
~ Cut the picture out, leaving the protective covering on the back.
~ Remove backing and position on poster board where ever you like.
~ Place inside frame and display anywhere.
This beautiful addition to our home only cost $7 in supplies and 45 mins. I’ll have this forever! There are several pieces of Detroit in my home. Who said, there is a limit to my love of the place I call home? In what ways have you incorporated a geographic place into your living quarters?
HGTV has been the channel of my heart since its premier in 1997. I like tackling home decor projects and creating my own personality in a space. This year I pulled all the stops out while creating a comfortable space for my family. All these episodes and Pinterest pins came into play as I settled in to the new digs.
I’ve painted more this year than I have in my entire life! It was all great fun, even the hauling of six solid oak chairs up and down 3 flights of stairs. The bedroom projects were the most fun. I’ve never displayed the young lad’s chalkboard wall. This has proven to be a great communication medium for us.
The dining room is NOT complete as of yet but here’s a peek at the wall.
Then I tackled a gallery wall of different size frames. It is not complete yet because I haven’t stopped to get 2 (YES, I said two!) pictures resized for their respective places. Here’s a shot of how that turned out so far.
This is my family wall. The years to come will possibly result in the area growing. I’m happy with it. Then there is the entry way into the apartment. A small collection of picture taken from my Instagram.
I have a few additional projects but I’m almost complete. It’s been fun. However, I won’t be engaging in too much of this activity in the upcoming year. Why? This place will be finished! 😉
Yup! I’m finished painting the walls. (Even though I still have the cans under the kitchen sink.) This paint required a little more patience, precision and planning. Once again, an over abundance of HGTV had birthed the idea for the project I was about to tackle. The painting of a solid wood dining room table and six (6) of the eight chairs that went with it.
I found this dining set four years ago on Craigslist for $150. It has been the crown jewel for several family gatherings. The table alone is perfect for a buffet, extending to it’s maximum length of 9 feet. As much as I loved it’s original design my artist side craved something more contemporary. This piece of furniture needed to co-habitat with the color scheme of my open floor plan living space. It was officially DIY time.
I had been thinking about this for a while and decided to paint the entire thing BLACK. After eight can of spray paint in a high gloss finish, 1 can of Rustoleum brush on, a borrowed sander, countless hours and hauling up and down the stairs – I’m proud of the finish product. I’ll finish the seat covers in the coming year. Take a look at it all come together. That’s Beau Miss!
You know, I thought I was finished with my bedroom. Everything was right where I needed it to be. It showed personality and comfort. One day while I was lying in bed, I looked up. Not at the wall in front of me – the wall behind my head. It was boring. I thought, what can be done to increase the attractiveness of this wall.
I always noticed pictures hanging over the beds in home decor magazines. However, my headboard is a few inches shorter than me and overpowers the wall already. So hanging something over the bed was out of the question. Then I looked at the wall in front of me and knew what had to be done. I needed to mirror this, onto this wall. This would give me the balance I needed and stop people from wanting to come all the way in my room to see the “Cracked Wall.”
My trusty can of paint was pulled out of the closet once again for it’s final obligation to this unit. There was no need to paint the entire wall. You would never be able to see it and the bed weighs too much for me to wrestle with it on carpet to move it. The cornice received a liberal covering of painter’s tape before brushing two coats of the light blue hue on to the wall. After 8 hours or drying, I allowed #19 the opportunity to unveil the project.
Words can’t describe how much this made me smile. I was finally finished and could throw this paint can in the dumpster. I even painted the underside so I could see it all the time. They say blue is a calming color. I don’t know about that but it’s my favorite color and now I finally have a room that I adore. That’s Beau!
I hope I’ve inspired you to take a chance with paint and your creativity. Are there some areas of your home you’d like to give a special touch to? Do you feel stuck in a white or beige box apartment? There may be other options for you to express yourself. I’ll be happy to assist you anyway I can!
I told you all about the book sale the Detroit Public Library was hosting this past weekend. The book lover and cozy day reader in me got up early equipped with reusable shopping bags gathering coins for the parking meter. I was going to tackle the world before I was due to punch the clock. Get there early was the only thing on my mind. As I pulled into parking space number 6, I noticed the line growing. My strong legs and limited baggage carried me across the street in a hurry.
At 10 AM, the doors were unlocked and the herd drove into the basement of one of the most beautiful libraries, which is celebrating it 150th birthday this year. People brought boxes, their suitcases, grabbed available boxes to cash in on the savings. The books they offer are from the library’s collection that have been put out of circulation. Any type if book you can think of is here. All the mass production paper backs are 10 cents, other paperbacks are .50 and my favorite the hardcover books are $1. You can’t even beat that at the thrift store.
I loaded up my bag and read the descriptions to books that caught my interest and battled over a few titles. The war was started because I only allowed myself $20 for the event and I had to make the right choices. With my bag loaded with the books I decided to purchase I made my way to the cashier. Eighteen dollars later, I emerged from the real readers of Detroit’s speakeasy. Excited about the haul I hurried along with my day eager for day 2. You didn’t think I was done!
The second day I usually wait towards the end of the sale to appear. Just to see if there is anything I may have left and what the volunteers have added to the shelf. What literary gem did I discover this time? A pristine copy of “Uncle Tom’s Cabin” by Harriet Beecher Stowe. I wanted it more than anything but day 2 is about pushing my literary boundaries into new genres. My young man helped me pick out a few horror books and knew that he would need to turn my light off at night. I only spent $6 on Saturday for a total of 24 books to read. That’s Beau!
Here are the titles from my latest haul. My love affair with Mark Twain continues as I picked up a copy of “Life on the Mississippi.” The author J. D. Mason captured me a few years back and I couldn’t remember if I had read these titles but I picked them up. (I also realized I need to make a list to take with me to reference while shopping next year.). “The New Basic Black” is an etiquette book for people of color and tips about how you should conduct yourself. Major side eye if you feel I should not have purchased this and my niece will being an etiquette class in the near future. It’s needed!
The book I’m the most excited about from my time attending this event over the years is an autograph copy of “Roots” by Alex Haley. I guard it with my life. In my Beau Miss decor there’s a big question about, how I plan to store these? Just wait and see! More than any thing else the proceeds of this great event benefit a worthy cause. That makes it a win win!
Have you read any of the titles I purchase this time? Does your local library release their books to the public? I would be interested in visiting locations in other cities and communities.
There’s something very special about beautiful organization options. It’s amazing how people can use the same item for completely different things. When I began to research needed features for my vanity, I went straight to YouTube. Through the million videos I watched I realized there was no right or wrong way to set up this area but the apothecary jar kept appearing in the footage. People had made them, spent a nice amount on them or just let it go from their plans. I knew I needed a few to liven up the party in my setting and I was on the hunt!
Whenever I strike out for home accents on a budget I go to Hobby Lobby first. They’ve rarely let me down since my 1st visit a few years ago. When I searched the aisles for the coveted jars I discovered a beautiful selection at prices I refused to pay. The stickers ranged from $19.99-27.99 and there was a 50% discount on the items. I had only given myself a $25 budget to decorate my vanity and these definitely would have blown it. So I decided to hit the store next door – Home Goods
My my my! The selection of apothecary jars was endless and the prices were just what I needed. Take a look!
With so many to choose from I became anxious. The prices were more my speed ranging from clearance pieces for $5 and larger more elaborate pieces for $20. Then I remembered the space I was working with and settled on two for a total of $10.
They have added attitude and function to the vanity. As you can see I use the shorter of the two for cotton balls, rounds and squares – all the things I need when I’m cleaning and clearing my face. The taller jar is utilized for my most favorite cosmetic – Mascara, and I see there’s a little room for a few more.
I first became exposed to these jars via my mom. She actually uses hers to hold soap, instead of leaving it in the boxes. My sister Shawn, uses them as candy dishes. There are so many wonderful uses they almost seem essential to any home. I’m sure I’ll be picking up a few more in the future as this has become on of myBeloved Things and Beau Miss.
Whenever I’m away you already know I’m doing something constructive. Currently, I playing the role of Home Decorator Maker. This includes but is not limited to hours shopping for eclectic pieces to add personality, DIY projects and organizing the clothes, cookware and linen. I’m very particular which creates an even longer amount of time for me to be settled.
All of the big furniture was delivered and set up. In my mind, I was plotting on the walls and light fixtures. I saw a place the leasing or maintenance man wouldn’t recognize and a home I had pinned on my Make Home Beautiful board on Pinterest. The first place we had to organize was l’chamber. My bedroom. The owner has to be comfortable to battle the many tasks before her. Do you remember the paint cans in the basket in my last post?
Welp! They served as a spring board to my vision. I went into Loew’s that morning and picked up painters tape and 2 cans of what they call “Oops Paint” both we’re 5 bucks. Of course I couldn’t beat that and the colors are agreeable with me.
I came in an taped a haphazard pattern on the wall in front of my bed. Taped the wall down the entry of the apartment and a few other places. Needless to say this lady emptied 2 rolls of painter’s tape on making this place DIFFERENT.
Here are the results from my projects:
I refuse to throw the black paint out for some odd reason. Maybe it’ll find it’s way to the dumpster once the television comes and I find the remaining pieces for the living area.
So far so good! I’m growing to like the added touches and smile when I open my door! Next project gallery wall! Talk to you soon. That’s Beau!